Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Why so downcast, oh my soul? Put your hope in God.

We know that David encouraged himself in the Lord. He was in that dark cave with the despondent men who had very little hope in life. They were debtors and down on their luck. Later these discouraged souls become known as the mighty men of valor.

But why does it work? Why does encouraging yourself IN THE LORD help you overcome discouragement?

Well, first we should examine some ways of encouraging oneself in the Lord.

Praise: You knew that would be first. When you lift your voice to praise the Lord, it's nearly impossible to speak doubt. We can't say "Woe is me" and "Praise the Lord" in the same breathe. We have to choose whether we will lift up our faith or speak our problems. The Lord wants you to cry out to Him --of course we are His children--but He wants us to learn to speak His Word and believe we will see His answer. Speak this Psalm aloud and then tell me you don't feel encouraged.

Psalm 147

1PRAISE THE Lord! For it is good to sing praises to our God, for He is gracious and lovely; praise is becoming and appropriate. 2The Lord is building up Jerusalem; He is gathering together the exiles of Israel.3He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds curing their pains and their sorrows.

Prayer: But we need to resist praying the problem. God knows the problem --since you told him twice last week. He wants you to start praying --or speaking -- the answer that's already written in His Word. Remember Job admitting that what he feared had fallen upon him. I want to speak what I
want to come upon me NOT what I fear. Fears get more powerful as we speak them aloud. On the other hand, our faith can grow too. Remember Jesus teaching his disciples that the Word of God is like a seed.

Matthew 13:23
But the one who received the seed that fell on good soil is the man who hears the word and understands it. He produces a crop, yielding a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown.

I desire to speak God's Word over my situation so that I can see my faith grow and not my fear. That type of prayer will encourage you.

We are reminded in Psalms 107
19Then they cry to the Lord in their trouble, and He delivers them out of their distresses.20He sends forth His word and heals them and rescues them from the pit and destruction.21Oh, that men would praise [and confess to] the Lord for His goodness and loving-kindness and His wonderful works to the children of men!22And let them sacrifice the sacrifices of thanksgiving and rehearse His deeds with shouts of joy and singing!

Your Expectation: Do you believe you will always live in a discouraged state with little or no hope? Or are you expecting the Lord to do something wonderful because you are His child and have the favor of the Most High?

Psalms 27: 13 I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the LORD In the land of the living.

Life or death in the power of your tongue.
Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit.

I want the fruit that produces life so I have to speak LIFE!

Okay, so getting back to my original question:
Why does encouraging yourself IN THE LORD help you overcome discouragement?

Because you are COMMANDING your soul to PRAISE the LORD. You don't give your soul any other choice. Like Nike--Just do it!

Listen to this song and speak the words to this Psalm aloud and then realize you COMMANDED your soul to PUT YOUR HOPE IN GOD!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=re6bhW-dQRM

Monday, July 13, 2009

Healthy boundaries--rejecting the fear of man.

Just wanted to post this here as a reminder that we need to keep going back to the basics in our belief in God healing us from all our diseases and delivering us from the curse. Remember that we are working on knowing what is our boundaries with the enemy of our soul as well as healthy boundaries with our relationships as well. So this post is about both.

I came to realize not too long ago, that if it is written in the curses from Deuteronomy 28 then it
does NOT belong to me or any believer because Jesus took ALL of the curse and I do not have to allow the devil to rip me off. This verse from Deuteronomy 28 describes what I was experiencing when I was dealing with constant, debilitating depression and severe anxiety.

Deuteronomy 28 28The Lord will smite (remember from Ps 16 that our sorrows are from sin and God wants the best for you) you with
madness and blindness (I was spiritually blind to God's love for me) and dismay of mind and heart.29And you shall grope at noonday (I felt exhausted and constantly sleepy) as the blind grope in darkness. And you shall not prosper in your ways; and you shall be only oppressed and robbed continually, and there shall be no one to save you. (medication barely took the edge off my symptoms)

I noted in a previous post that when I saw this listed in the curses that I KNEW with 100% certainty that this curse was one that Jesus took for me and I would never again let the devil steal from me again when it came to my mental health and wholeness of my spirit. I am also reminded in the New Covenant in
2Timothy 1:17 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

Jesus said that he came to give us life and more abundantly and the devil is here to do his best to steal, kill and destroy in the believer's life. John 10:10.

So to explain, I was struggling with a fear that I had to keep dealing with over and over and I was discouraged that I could not just trust God and experience victory in this particular area of my life. I went to a very dear friend who prayed with me to overcome in this area of fear. It had to do with the fear of man(Proverbs 29 25
The fear of man brings a snare, but whoever leans on, trusts in, and puts his confidence in the Lord is safe and set on high.) But let's just say it was one particular person and it affected my emotions and twisted my perspective of a relationship.

When I described to my friend how difficult this fear was for me, I noticed that my eyes would not meet her's when I tried to tell her about it. I was experiencing shame. I knew it was connected to fears that had begun in my childhood and God was doing something in my heart just by confessing to my friend my fear. (James5:15
And the prayer of faith will save him who is sick, and the Lord will restore him; and if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven.16Confess to one another therefore your faults and pray for one another, that you may be healed and restored. The earnest prayer of a righteous man makes tremendous power available.) While she prayed for me, the Lord revealed to me how I could not look her in the eye and that was shame and whenever there is shame it is connected to the curse. If it is connected to the curse well, I know that does not belong to me.

That's when I spoke aloud (or confessed) that this shame does not belong to me and God has delivered me from all of the curse and Jesus accomplished everything needed to set me free from the condemnation of the law and sin and death that went along with that it. I was allowing my emotions to rule instead of recognizing that God's Word says I am set free from the law of sin and death.

Romans 8 1THEREFORE, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, who live and walk not after the dictates of the flesh, but after the dictates of the Spirit.2For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has freed me from the law of sin and of death.

So it's been about a week since praying with my friend and how I recognizing that God wanted me to deal with this fear and the shame that had latched itself to me. I recognized the truth of God Word and now I'm free from that fear of man and free from the shame that was connected. I am set free! God's Word has healed me and has set me free and delivered me from the curse of the law of sin and death.
Hallelujah!

Thursday, July 9, 2009

Indicator lights

I was thinking about the indicator lights in my car. One came on the other other day that said that something was wrong with my fuel cap. Well, I wiggled the fuel cap and made sure it was tight but the indicator light stayed on until the next time I turn the car on. I guess I "fixed" it. LOL! But the light is only a clue that something might be wrong so I have to be sensitive to discover if it is worth taking the car in and spending big bucks to have it hooked up to the computer or just a weird thing with the sensor like it getting dusty or rattled loose from my bumpy road. I pay attention to those lights because it could be something serious that needs to be fixed right away so I can save my car from destruction or seriously expensive repairs.

We have indicator lights in our natural bodies, don't we? If we are sleepy in the morning and need an extra cup of coffee it might mean we should not have stayed up so late chatting on Facebook or watching that really great ballgame that went into overtime. That indicator might tell us to get our tushes to bed earlier. If we have a sore throat it might indicate to us that we need more vitamin C or eat better. When we step on the scale and we see the digits mysteriously rising higher and higher then we know we need to stop eating ice cream or those extra mashed potatoes like it's a staple to our diets. With the natural indicator lights if we don't pay attention to them our health will be in ruin in a short amount of time.

What indicator lights do we have in other parts of life like our relationships? If I'm having strife with my husband, it might be a signal that I have not been spending quality time with him and just doing things for myself. I need to pay attention when my kids are whining that I never play games with them or take them to the mall. (which I really do not like to shop but they do so I need to make an effort). If we are feeling like nobody likes us and everybody hates us then we need to exam how we have been nurturing our relationships or neglecting those same relationships.

Have we been overly critical? Are we finding that others are saying things about us that maybe are only a shadow of who we truly are? If we find this in our lives, it is possible that we have planted seeds of criticalness or not planting grace into someone elses life when they needed it most. This lack of grace is what we end up reaping when the harvest is ready to come back to us. These are indicators that we need to plant good seeds in our lives so we can reap good fruit and not bitter.

So what are some bitter fruits that we might reap and have to eat if we are not paying attention to what we are sowing?

Bitter fruit
A lack of forgiveness will cause us to eat bitter fruit. If we have some hurt come our way, we have a choice we can speak evil into our lives and bellyache aloud about what that person did to me or I can go to the Father and ask him to heal that hurt. While I'm healing, I don't keep picking at that scab. It will have to keep healing over and over instead of just healing up once and then there is scar that others can see until God has had a chance (it takes time) to totally give you new life in this area of your walk with Him.

Indicator lights might be: lack peace when that person is brought up in conversation, staying stuck in a "woe is me" type attitude, and a general fatigue in both physical and spiritual endeavors.

Repent of bitter fruit seed that you've planted and start speaking what God's Word says about a situation. Speaking the problem over and over is like eating the bitter fruit and replanting all those seeds from that fruit. It won't get better until you change the cycle.

Fruit of lack
If you feel you always want what you can't afford or have fallen into the trap of buying things on credit you may have inadvertently planted seed of lack.

We want something and dwell on it more than God's desires for us and eventually we will be eating the fruit of lack. Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desire of your heart. Don't turn this around...you don't get what you want by buttering up the Lord. You get HIS desires when you delight yourself in him. You will be a peace and live a satisfied life when you delight in the Lord.

Fruit of fear
Fear of man is a snare it says in the Word of God. When I feel fear, I try to ask myself if I have leaned toward putting my trust in a person rather than trusting fully on God. I will fall apart quicker than anything when I have been fearing what others think rather than what I know God thinks about me. God thinks I'm the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus. He thinks I'm the head and not the tail. He thinks I'm more than a conqueror in Christ Jesus.

Indicators: working so others will like you or to "force" God to notice you and even love you. If we fear what others think we might have the fear of man more than fearing God. When we fear God it leads to wisdom. When we fear man it leads to eating the fruit that makes us feel driven to succeed when in God we are a success!

Fruit of complacency
A feeling like we are spinning our wheels in life and really not going forward. If we have become too comfortable where we are at then we will not take the risks that God intends for us to build up our faith. What is in your life that causes you to stay put in the boat and not want to get out and follow Christ. The feeling of dissatisfaction is actually a blessing in this case since it is the Lord trying to call you out of your comfort zone and press in after Him.

Dry and withered fruit

Let's face it. If we don't nurture the seeds that we've planted then we will have fruit that will not nourish us. We will have "good" fruit but just barely. We can eat it this season but not have any for the next and a famine in our spiritual life is inevitable. If we find our fruit is withered we can start planting seeds today that will produce a good harvest. We need to seek God to know what we are lacking for sweet abundant fruit. Maybe we are letting the enemy rip us off from some good fruit by what we are confessing. Maybe we believe that God wants us to be living abundantly but we keep saying things like, "I'm so sick and tired of dealing with these kids or this stubborn spouse". We are confessing fatigue and withered fruit. We might be believing for God to give our spouse a better job or a promotion with more pay but we keep speaking about all the negative that comes our way, "Life if just so unfair to us. My husband works so hard and no one ever gives him any credit!" When instead we should be saying aloud that we are blessed and highly favored and God is for us so who can be against us! Hallelujah God is good!"

Withered fruit can be season after season if we don't learn to speak God's Word and stop speaking our problems.